Hi there!

Today I will talk about something that many of you probably struggle with. Weight.
You may now think that I am overweight when i now tell you i get bullied, but thats not the case for me. People pick on me because I'm skiny.
And I complain about that.
Eventhough skiny people mustn't complain. But thats not at all fair to me. At one side people bully skiny people, but on the other side we arent alowed to complain about that. That doesnt make sense!

People tell us things like this:
"ew you are so skiny, all i can see is bones"
"You should eat more"
"you know that beeing so skiny isnt hot?"
"you know that guys like curvy girls?"
 " You are SO skiny"

And people think thats ok.

But you cant tell a fat person equal things:
"Ew you are so fat all i see is flesh"
"you should eat less"
"you know beeing fat isnt sexy?"
"You know that guys like well shaped girls?"
"you are SO big"

Because that would be mean. But walking up to someone slim and telling them those things is ok?
Its like people literaly hate us for not beeing big. for not beeing like them.
Why do they do that?
to make themselfes feel better?
do we have to suffer because we are naturaly skiny?
what the hell do those people think?!
We arent alowed to be happy with how we look, but we arent alowed to complain either.
Of course i know that skiny was promoted for a long time, and now its the curvy ones turn.

But thats different.
Naturaly skiny people CAN'T put on weight, unless they eat untill they feel sick. And why would they hurt their body and be unhealthy, just to be "perfect"?
 But big people CAN loose weight if they realy want to.

And Of course there are also normal sized people. But what does normal sized even mean? Is that the middle between skiny and big?  where does skiny end and big start?

Now i want to disgust one last thing.
Offensive songs.
Have you ever heard a song insultig overweight people? No? well, me neither. But have you heard songs insulting skiny people? Yes? well, me too.
The famous example "all about that bass".
Now to be fair, it's ok that she tries to give people her sice and herself confidence.
BUT.
Here is where it get's mean, and offending. "Go ahead and tell the skiny bitches that".
Doesn't sound nice to me at all. Because the message I get from that, is, that she thinks skiny people are bitches.
And then "the boys like a little more boody to hold at night" well, and if you don't have that "little more boody" you won't find a boyfriend? so come on skiny girls, Megan Trainor thinks we are skiny bitches with no bum and no boyfriend, time to eat until we throw up! Is that what people want us to do?
So what happened now is that curvy girls get support, and skiny girls get insults.
well thanks.

Anyway. Maby you are "curvy ore "normal" and you know a skiny person. Please think before you talk.
And if you are a skiny girl, reciving insults, dont worry, they just don't know how it feels. My tip, tell them how it feels. And if they don't understand they are stupid and not worth talking to.

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See ya xx